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Certainly many worried that question. To some it is still relevant. So, emotions overwhelm you. You difficult and painful. These are difficult feelings, which, nevertheless, part of your life. Insomnia, anorexia, or vice versa. The pain in my soul, heart and head. The feeling that hurts so much not yet been and never will, emptiness, apathy.
Belief in a better leaving us. But I wanted to live long, happy and most importantly together. You are not the first and last you who passed through it. Others have passed and you will pass.

Worry does not make sense in any case: Do you stay or go away forever.
It needs neither you nor the former, anyone. Why should this situation be regarded as a punishment? Perhaps it is a gift? The man went away from you, possibly at the time. He told the truth. The act of an honest or you want to make him suffer and to live against his will? Began to think: “How to get it back?”. It’s hard. In most cases, only the manipulation, but it is too.

Just try another look at it all. Enjoy life. Give yourself and your family to live. Have fun, energizing other people. Maybe you had too much. Given that “you had too much”, there was no negative emotions, and they should be. Remember the carrot and the stick. People are such creatures.

Are you sure that his words: “I want to be with you always” - backed up by an internal desire, not just words. Feelings are not on the person, but by the time it was also good. Hence there is an anchor of the past. You want happiness, emotions from the past. In the end, appreciate the fact that you really loved, because not everyone felt such a sense of light.

Do you have more than feelings and serious plans for this man. You had hoped that similar expectations arose, and her favorite halves. But it seems that this hope is hope. In a state of love very much that the other did the same as you. Moreover, it is very difficult to make the idea that it is not. And in this sense is very difficult not to “think through”. Especially women …

Each person has different period of love. This period is different, research scientists often 1-4 years. After that, together, may be people who share common values, beliefs and opinions, or just slaves of habit. Look from another angle, realize you may have completely different people, just before you did not notice it.

Remember the movie “Admiral”. I brought myself to a very strong lesson. When my husband off his wife to another. No yelling and bickering. He loved, sincerely and purely. Dismissing her, he proves his love.

If you’re still pretty easy for your loved one, he thereby creates new conditions for an old problem. He will try to find someone who he likes. Put on a “like” ordinary hopes and thereby risk getting another disappointment … It provided that the relations were quite harmonious.
A lot of people are experiencing this problem as they think. Some people in this situation all my life go from partner to partner, hoping that “now, then all will be really. Others meekly resign themselves to the situation, get used to it, with more or less successfully stifle their inner discomfort, and his sense indifference called peace of mind. Others include the calculation of the pros and cons of the situation, soberly assess the profitability of such a “business”. Different situations are.

One says: you can live and be. You have the right to continue to love this man. But have the same right to say goodbye to him, to find the boundary between your lives, to feel separate, independent being. Being that needs to love and be loved, but which are not becoming fewer, if love leaves. After note: if your life goes out of your favorite people, or even go very feeling of love, you are not getting the very least - a little less becomes the world that surrounds you and has significance for you.

Conclusion.
You can live and be. You do not know from what you could save it. Partner has been completely honest with you, as is said. You are not the first you will not last. Enough is not fair, but you also throwing. Perhaps the gap relationships - is a gift, not punishment. These relationships may be preparing for those who are waiting for you all my life.
You will depend on how much you want to lose time, because time is running, it does not stop. Do not sit on the ground, get something (foreign languages, training, sports, hobbies, and finally work). Stop focusing on the pseudo problem. Enough self-pity. You do not need nothing to return. We are always something to lose, something we find. Maybe you get what you deserve.
Life ends when tomorrow you will not.

This attracts like. Most likely now that the law no longer works. You are different. You just need to get used to the idea: all that I now have and it was in life - it all I had pulled her to him. Including all those things that you complain. You attracted them to him, consciously or subconsciously. Even if you are not very nice to hear now. Not everyone is so easy to understand and accept this, but you just need to accept this as fact, all that we have today - we just imagine and create. We attract into your life people, events, things, life style, etc. And if you do not understand how it works - is no reason to abandon all the benefits that the law of attraction is you. For example, you understand how exactly electricity works? I - no. Nevertheless, we take advantage of it. So with this law.

Time passes. How many people have said: “It seems ridiculous now, but I was so tormented …”
Last time you remember? Everything comes with experience.

Think about it
Heraclitus - Greek philosopher, who lived in the V. BC. Oe., at the time of Buddha Shakyamuni. Suggested a general variability, formation. Posted by no extant essay “On Nature”, from which only excerpts have survived in the writings of later authors. Style Heraclitus different poetic imagery. Valued symbols of its fragments does sometimes puzzling their inner meaning, as a result of Heraclitus in ancient times was called “dark”.
“Twice did not enter into the same river, because water is replenished by another.
“You can not enter into the same river twice, as well as double-touch on the death of nature in the same condition: it scatters and gathers at the same time is formed and decreases, approaching and removed.

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